I think you should be at least 18. Like it or not, birth control and condoms can fail. Sure, you can get an abortion, but even if you are pro-choice, wouldn't you rather just avoid the whole thing? It's expensive, all for some quick pleasure. Do it if you don't mind getting pregnant, if it won't cause you any grief and you know precisely what you're going to do if you do get pregnant. Otherwise, I don't think you're ready.
"Having sex is like squaring numbers, if [quote]they're under 13 just do them in your head."
Haha, Bo Burnham.
Anyway, whenever you feel comfortable you should have sex. If you under the age of consent, have it with somebody your age. Besides that just have safe sex and age shouldn't matter all that much.
Ugh, fine. (Me posting in this thread does not mean this thread will not get locked. So far there's been a lot of posts deleted, too many because they were spammy.)
it would be one or the other
Morning after pills are not meant to be used as a preservative. They're the pre-abortion emergency solution. NOT a standard way of avoiding pregnancy every time you've had sex.
I think 14 is when most people should begin their sex lives.
I don't think you should have that 'should' in that sentence. Plenty of people won't feel ready for sex when they're fourteen, so if 'everyone should begin' having sex at that age, well... Just strike the should, kay?
And as for my reply to the topic... When ready. Not when you just wanna, not when it would just seem fun to do, but when you're friggin ready. Otherwise you'll end up regretting it. I don't think the time where that readiness is there is set at a certain age. Prepuberty is definitely pre-biologically ready, though.
The legal age in Denmark is 15, btw. Seems reasonable enough to me.
"Having sex is like squaring numbers, if they're under 13 just do them in your head."
Haha, Bo Burnham.
Anyway, whenever you feel comfortable you should have sex. If you under the age of consent, have it with somebody your age. Besides that just have safe sex and age shouldn't matter all that much.
