Well I guess the title says it all, I was just wondering who ya'll thought were the most active 'forumers' in this part of the AG forum. Opinions, that what this Forum is going to be, pure opinions, and yes you can say 'Me'.
i have a friend zone story. lol so my best friend like this girl a lot and the other day they were texting and when she left he told her he loves her she replied me too. the next day he showed me the texts and i told him it could mean just as a friend, turns out i was right.
You have to be careful though, A lot of my friends that are girls say i love you to everyone and everything so some people get confused on which may be real or not.
Yeahhh, "I love you" isn't necessarily a good way of alerting someone that you're interested... It can either be too strong a phrase or, as said above, a much too common one.
Thats really true actually for some reason i never thought of it that way. Although im not really gunna be "intimate" any time soon thats kinda illegal.
Not to most teenagers, it isn't. Then again we don't exactly refer to it as intimacy. It's more of a "wham bam thank you mam" kinda deal.
That's why I'm saying "intimacy" - I could just have said "sex" if that was what I meant, but stuff like kissing, holding hands, just being close. Or even just talking about stuff with full trust towards the other. Sex is more of a passion thing, really.
Not to most teenagers, it isn't. Then again we don't exactly refer to it as intimacy. It's more of a "wham bam thank you mam" kinda deal.
I actually disagree with myself, lord knows I wish I didn't but I do. I've been offered sex before by passed it up because I at least want the first time to be something special, hence the reason I'm forced into the friend zone so often.
I have a question for all you clever nubbins of AG: If someone has a sexual drive above normal; and finds it hard to get around in life without sleeping with multiple(?) people a lot, does that make them a ****? I think that's a kind of on topic question :/
Example 3.) Jack is interested in Jill. Jill knows it. She shouldn't hang out with him, but does anyway because she feels bad saying no and she does enjoy his company. Jack often confronts Jill about his feelings toward her but she tells him over and over that they are only friends and she wants nothing more. In this case Jack should stop seeing her because he knows she is a waste of time.
I thought I said, "Jack should get it through his head that Jill's not interested." I want the example to say that instead, because it illustrates better that Jack is the person keeping himself in the friend zone. They could remain friends but Jack should stop pushing things. It would have also better illustrated that Jill is the one who is facing a more difficult situation because she does like Jack as a friend, but has been about as up front as can be with Jack. Jill is facing a keep a friend who will constantly badger me (but have history with) or have to lose him altogether do to constant badgering.
I have a question for all you clever nubbins of AG: If someone has a sexual drive above normal; and finds it hard to get around in life without sleeping with multiple(?) people a lot, does that make them a ****? I think that's a kind of on topic question :/
Good point but lets face it if that were true that would make a lot of people *****s, especially Marylin Monroe.
That's why I'm saying "intimacy" - I could just have said "sex" if that was what I meant, but stuff like kissing, holding hands, just being close. Or even just talking about stuff with full trust towards the other. Sex is more of a passion thing, really.
Sorry i misunderstood you. I do agree with you but surely if holding hands and being close to people makes them in love then why do girls that are friends and friends that really are just "friends" do that?
Sorry i misunderstood you. I do agree with you but surely if holding hands and being close to people makes them in love then why do girls that are friends and friends that really are just "friends" do that?
It doesn't make them necisarrily in love but just good friends. I somehow been appointed as keeper of interests or maybe a therapist among my friends that are girls. Some of them have vented their whole life problems to me. They also tell me who they like and everything, i know who is going out with who and all this personal crap. It just so happens that im a good enough friend wwith them for them to trust me and i guess be a bit more intimate depending on how you want to look at it.
